Saturday, February 25, 2012

Staying Put

Wow, first and foremost thank you all so much for the kind thoughts and prayers for me and my boys.  Emily and Unaffected, I appreciate all the troops you rallied up to support me.  I don't know what else to say, but thanks!

I really wanted to update sooner, but have been resting and catching up on my eating today. Yesterday was very long and scary.  All I ate was cereal at breakfast, so today I've been feeding these babies, who are happily still growing in my "ute" (as Emily would say)!

Okay, so yesterday morning, I woke up feeling like crap. The night before, we had gone to an NBA game and we didn't get in until late. I had to get up early with my DSs and get them ready for school. I attributed the late night before to my low backache and on and off cramping. I sat for most of the morning and drank water, hoping they would subside. In a two hour time period, I timed 21 contractions. All with accompanying low back pain. I knew I had to call my doc. On my way to the phone, I stopped in the bathroom to pee. When I wiped, there was a big bloody glob of mucous on the tp (sorry for the TMI). I wiped again and there was blood. I stayed calm, but pretty much decided then and there that I was in labor. I've never had back labor before, but I thought maybe that's what was going on. I called my OB and they told me to go straight to labor and delivery.

When I got there, I got hooked up and was contracting about 5 minutes apart. The babies looked great. Strong heartbeats (132 &150) but we had to get the contractions stopped and quickly. My doc didn't want to stir anything up by checking my cervix manually, so they brought an u/s machine in and measured it/looked at it abdominally. Long and closed, thank god!

They didn't want to jump straight to mag sulfate, so they gave me a shot in the back of my arm (some sort of muscle relaxer) to calm my uterus. It didn't work. Just made me shaky and hyper and my heart race. An hour later, I was begging for the mag, anything to stop the contractions and keep my babies safe. The gave me a shot of dem.erol and phener.gan. I was still in pain and contracting regularly, but was loopy and cared less about the pain, the medicine was just making me foggy and out of touch with reality. It was awful. I hated not feeling like I was in control, not feeling like I could advocate for myself and my babies like I should have been able to.

During that time, they tested my urine and saw that it contained elevated white cells. Couple that with the back pain and they decided the pain was coming from the kidneys, not back labor. They did an u/s on my kidneys and it came back negative. I was so frustrated thinking that we were back to square one and I was in labor. My doc disagreed, though. He said that a lot of times, in the early stages or with small stones, they aren't easily detected on an u/s. Sometimes, you have to take the "wait and see" approach. He ordered another shot of dem.erol and phener.gan and this one knocked me out. For like three hours. When I woke up, I had an IV in my left arm and was already on my second bag of fluids. DH informed me that the contractions had pretty much stopped and that I was only having maybe one or two an hour. I had to pee, but they made me go in a strainer to see if I passed anything. I didn't, but it was painful and only came out in a small stream. Ouch.

They decided that the contractions were just my uterus reacting to me being in pain from my kidneys. Once we got the pain under control, the contractions stopped. My doc said the ONLY reason my cervix stayed nice and closed was because Baby A was no longer head down, but had flipped transverse and was pretty high up. (Good boy, babe!!) Had he been head down, I would have been effacing and dilating. We were so relieved to get this news!

They traced heartbeats and contractions for another hour and then I was allowed to go home. I got a third dose of pain meds/anti-nausea and came home and passed out. I have to pee in a strainer to see if I pass anything. If I do pass something, they want me to bring it in and have it tested to see what it is I need to stay away from the rest of the pregnancy, food-wise.

Today, I am just trying to stay on top of the pain and rest. It is uncomfortable to pee, so I'm hoping I will pass something soon.

As for the mucous plug, I took it to the hospital with me in a zip.loc bag and my doc said it was a good thing I came in when I did. He thinks that the plug will replenish itself. We just need to keep a close eye on my cervix at all my appts from here on out.

Well, that was a book. Sorry to keep you all waiting for an update. So thankful that these babies are still with me and baking!!

Thanks again for all the blog love! And to my new followers, I will follow you back!

19 comments:

  1. Oh, thank God. I can breathe a sigh of relief for you. I have been stalking you like a mad woman all day. I'm so, so glad to read that your boys are staying put, even though I'm sure the kidney pain is pretty miserable. Yay!

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  2. So glad to hear everything settled :)

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  3. I followed the link to your blog from Unaffected to say a prayer for you and your boys and ended up reading almost your whole story!! I am so glad that everything is Ok!! Hopefully you pass those stones soon!!

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  4. I am so relieved that everything is ok with you and the babies. Sorry about kidney stones, been there and it is not very nice. Get feeling better soon!

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  5. Oh how scary! I'm glad the babes were cooperative!

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  6. what a relief! so glad you're hanging in there. take it as easy as you can. i will be following your story and hoping for all good things!

    mo

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  7. Oh my goodness. I was thinking about you all day and checking back regularly. I'm SO glad that things have turned around! Stay put there little ones! I hope the discomfort passes soon. Hang in there!

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  8. So glad everything is okay!! We were worried about you! Take care and I hope it's smooth sailing from here on out. :)

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  9. What an awesome update!!! Isn't it amazing how the blog world is so supportive?!? Keep those little guys in there... :)

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  10. I'm a new follower. So nice to hear you are alright and the babies aswell. Love from Sweden!

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  11. So glad everything is okay, Aub! Keep those babies cooking for a few more months!:)

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  12. I was so scared for you and those babies. I'm so, so glad to hear that everything is well with them and you, well, aside from the kidney stones and pain. Phew!

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  13. So very thankful you are ok. I had contractions with my kidney stones with ds too and wound up in the hospital!! Get some rest!!

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  14. Whew!!! So glad to hear things have calmed down! Kidney stones are no fun! :(

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  15. Glad to hear everything was ok - apart from the kidney issues. I hope you pass something soon and the pain goes away!

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  16. So glad to hear it! Well, not so much the kidney stones ;) Just seeing this on Monday, so I hope the weekend was restful and pain free.

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  17. So glad to hear the boys are still in ute. Not so much about the kidney stones...bummer. Hoping the pain eases up, hopefully you can pass it and enjoy the rest of the pregnancy pain free.

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  18. Eek, that was scary - so happy that you and the babes are ok. Rest up, lady!

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